A man should learn
several rules of a seducer ("pick-upper") to be a winner with
women.
To use these principles in practice, one has to take many efforts, but
will be rewarded with successful life. These principles can be applied
to different spheres of human life, not only to love relationships.
First rule
There is nothing bad that I am a man and want to subdue and
seduce women. I am going neither to justify my actions nor to apologize.
I am doing what I want, and I am in the position to do this.
Second rule
Nobody is 100 percent insured from failures, but a failure is
not the reason to be sad. It is a perfect chance to learn on your own
mistakes.
Not all your failures can be caused by your bad performance. The girl
can have her tights torn and feel embarrassed. Or she could have a bad
day, and you will choose a bad timing for approaching her. Or you can
meet the stupid or the bitch.
Accept your failure as a
precious opportunity to learn. For this reason I am not scared to tell
how I was turned down by girls. First, the girl demonstrated lack of
good taste by turning me down. Secondly, I learned something about
women"s psychology and would correct my behavior for future.
Third rule
When you communicate
with girls, "pick-up" and seduce them, you enjoy yourself. If
you do not enjoy this process, you are doing something wrong.
This is a very good feedback
from oneself: if you feel uncomfortable when communicating with the
woman, you have to think hard what to say and to do - you made some
mistake. You need have more training.
When everything works out easily and you even do not have to think what
to do at the next moment - you are doing all in a correct way.
Forth rule
Be more flexible!!!
Demonstrate more fantasy and improvisation. Real success can be achieved
only by making improvisation and combining different methods, when one
method turns into the second, the third and the fourth options, when you
stop thinking about methods and then discover that you used several of
them. The day will came when you will be able to do all
automatically.
Have more flexibility! Remember the anecdote:
A Georgian man is trying to get
a girl. After a short talk with he, he jumps to business,
Georgian Look
here, beauty. Let"s go to the sauna together today. Beer,
swimming-pool.
Girl Are you
crazy? I won"t go to the sauna with you!
Georgian Maybe
we could take a trip in the sea in the yacht? Big yacht, sea-gulls,
dolphins.
Girl I'd love to go to a yacht
Fifth rule
On the whole, our world is friendly to ourselves, and therefore
those seeking will always find. Each of us have all reasons to succeed.
Those really willing to have something and pursuing it, will
inevitably have it.
Speaking of women, anybody can
succeed. Every man has his strong point: some are well-educated, others
are communicative or strong...
The history of the most well-known seducers demonstrated: they were
neither very handsome nor extremely rich. They just knew how to treat
women and use all their resources for success. They used even the
flaws in their appearance in their business - to make women feel sorry
for them.