Dear Sir / Madam;
I fully trust that punishment cited in
"Punishment to increase on deadbeats"
will include deadbeat mothers, who bleed fathers
dry financially, physically and emotionally
until those fathers commit suicide - alas
perhaps leaving whatever estate to these
deadbeat mothers.
I am a mother myself and a widowed mother, who
has raised two teenage daughters alone
for the past six years. In January, 2004 missing
a complete family above all and wanting to
to grow old without a life
partner, I married an also widowed father of a 16 year old boy and a 24 year
old daughter. This daughter was from my husband's first marriage
and a daughter whom he continued to support through four years of
"College Education" . As informed parents know, college courses
last two years. The mother of this young lady managed to drive my husband's
second wife to suicide in November, 2000 after 10 years of marriage to my
husband. A bottom feeder who never did accept responsibility for spreading
her legs and conceiving life in the first place, one who spread them again
throughout the local community of Niagara Falls, while her baby daughter of
six months was left at home, being cared for by " DAD". A bottom
feeder who enjoyed a short employment stunt with Canada Customs, only to
" claim mental disability" for the rest of her life, while leaving
the same young infant locked up in the middle of winter in her car, to
drink at a local establishment and one who allowed this young daughter
to be raped by one of her fly by night lovers.
The same bottom feeder, who has learned to live
of the avails of the social and legal system ALL Canadian's, including
widowed mother's and father's contribute to.
This woman has been re-married for well over 10
years and her current husband lives in the
basement of their home. A sad state of
affairs, if a woman get's away with repeated murder - aided by the
Justice System.
As of lately, this very bottom feeder of 21
years ago, managed to alienate my husband's
16 year old son from his second marriage.
But then again, that one is called " the grey
area of the law". Here you have a man
who has retrieved countless children from car trunks and strip clubs,
returning those children to their parents. Here you have a father
who has without default supported
his daughter for 24 years, raised two stepsons
alongside his own son, lost a wife to death and
a newly married, previously widowed couple paying the price of "
hell" for a Justice System that has long gone askew.
As a mother, woman, widow and wife, my eyes
have been opened wide to a legal system
gone askew, which persecutes good men,
kills superior fathers any kid could only dream off , while catering
to deadbeat mothers with precisely that - a licence to alienate and kill.
Have we returned to the " Fringes" in
this country?
I encourage this government and FRO to get a
grip on reality and set the balance of
justice straight. A justice which needs to
post the faces of mothers and suspend
their driver's licenses alongside those -
usually " fathers" who are raped by this system.
Women want to be " equal" , then let
that law prevail and display both parties on the internet. The parent who is
claimed to be a deadbeat and the parent who does the claiming.
Only fair - after all, the public deserves
to know who done what - including both sexes.
Perhaps that provides good, supportive men with
a measure to stay away from involving
themselves with criminally harrassing and
abusive deadbeat moms.
In the meantime, women do have the hands-up.
You spread your legs - your doing!
You have a child, make sure you can support that
child - that is what responsibility
towards conceiving and raising life is all
about.
Lord help you if you ever had to do it on your
own without the crutches of running to the courts or FRO!
And if you do, remember, you are just as much of a deadbeat - bleeding taxes
from ALL Canadians, including women who ARE responsible for raising
their children on their own.
Angie Frommann
167 Municipal Street
Guelph, Ontario