Dating daddy's double

From Thursday's Globe and Mail

Seeing doube? Clockwise from top right: Caroline Mulroney with father Brian Mulroney and husband Andrew Lapham; Nigella Lawson with second husband Charles Saatchi and father Lord Nigel Lawson; Belinda Stronach with her father Frank Stronach and ex-husband Johann Olav Koss.

Seeing doube? Clockwise from top right: Caroline Mulroney with father Brian Mulroney and husband Andrew Lapham; Nigella Lawson with second husband Charles Saatchi and father Lord Nigel Lawson; Belinda Stronach with her father Frank Stronach and ex-husband Johann Olav Koss. (James Turner for The Globe and Mail)

If you were a daddy's girl, chances are you grew up to choose a boyfriend or husband who looks a lot like him, according to a study out of Britain.

A team of British and Polish researchers used a series of measurements to show how the spacing of fathers' facial features is mimicked in the faces of the men their daughters find attractive.

“These controlled results show for certain that the quality of a daughter's relationship with her father has an impact on whom she finds attractive,” said author Lynda Boothroyd of the psychology department at Durham University in Britain.

“It shows our human brains don't simply build prototypes of the ideal face based on those we see around us, rather they build them based on those to whom we have a strongly positive relationship.”

The notion of sexual imprinting, or sexual preference based on parental characteristics, has long been studied by evolutionary psychologists, who research mental and psychological traits relating to natural selection. Some experts suggest imprinting has persisted because it increases genetic compatibility between mates.

But this detailed mode of measurement is a new tool for mapping how sexual imprinting works.

Forty-nine Polish women were asked to select the most attractive face from a series of 15 photographs. Their choices' facial measurements were then compared with those of their fathers' faces. Ears, neck, shoulders and hair were excluded to emphasize the eyes, mouth, chin and nose and to prevent results from being influenced by style choices.

Women who reported good relations with their fathers tended to choose men with more facial similarities.

Sexual imprinting is believed to be independent of genetics, since previous studies have shown that women's positive relationships with their adoptive fathers also led them to choose mates who looked like dad, Dr. Boothroyd wrote in the study.

The research was released with celebrity examples such as Nigella Lawson, the British food writer whose husband, advertising executive Charles Saatchi, shares the elegant facial proportions of her father, Nigel Lawson, a former chancellor of the exchequer.

Here in Canada, a cursory scan of photographic evidence suggests that Belinda Stronach's ex, Johann Olav Koss, resembles her father, Frank, more than does her sometimes-escort Tie Domi. And Caroline Mulroney's hubby, Andrew Lapham, has a certain Brian Mulroney air about him.

Toronto-based professional matchmaker Ruth Claramunt says the research backs up her observations on the dating front line with her company Hearts Introduction Service.

“It's so true,” she says. “They could have just asked me!”

Recently, Ms. Claramunt says she watched science in motion when a female client chose a daddy doppelganger.

“She was gorgeous and tall – she could have had a GQ type,” the matchmaker says. “But she wanted a huge teddy bear like her father. That's who she's with now.”

Men, on the other hand, do not tend to choose women based on their relationships with their mothers, she says.

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